Do You Even Have What it Takes? 8 Skills You Need for a Fantastically Happy Best Retirement
Find out if you have the skills… to pay the retirement bills… and really thrive in this phase of your life.
1. A Knack for Dealing with Uncertainty
The best retirement plans strive to guarantee adequate retirement income no matter what happens in life. No matter how long you live… No matter whether the stock market goes up or down… No matter if you have a heart attack or are in a car accident… you want to be sure you still have enough money to spend each month.
However, no one can tell the future and at some point, there needs to be a leap of faith. You need to know how to deal with uncertainty.
Carl Richards, a CFP and personal finance columnist with the New York Times, writes that stress and doubt plague all retirees: “I’ve met with people who have more money than they could ever spend, and they’re absolutely convinced that tomorrow will be the day it all disappears. In fact, in my experience there is very little correlation between net worth and a personal sense of financial security.”
If you feel this stress, Richards suggests that you learn to be okay with risks and to remind yourself of all the things you can control: budgeting, monitoring and adjustment of investments, getting an extra job, downsizing, cutting expenses and more… He then says: “Now, look at that list and put a big, fat check mark next to everything you’ve addressed to the best of your ability. Whatever you didn’t check off, take some time and effort to work on it.”
NOTE: the NewRetirement retirement planning calculator can be a good resource for sanity checking and rechecking your plans.
2. Resilience: Can You Overcome Adversity?
My grandmother had a massive stroke at the age of 90. When she was in the intensive care unit, we overheard the nurses refer to her as a TOB. When we asked them what that meant, thinking it was some important medical term, they explained that it stood for: Tough Old Broad and that it was a complimentary term they used for older patients who they believed to have the grit to overcome a major health event.
In other words, they thought my grandmother was resilient. They were right, even at her advanced age, she did indeed overcome this major health event and continue living for another five years.
There is no doubt that you will deal with some difficulties throughout your retirement. Resilience — the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties — is what you need to keep going.
Psychology Today says that the factors that make someone resilient include: “a positive attitude, optimism, the ability to regulate emotions and the ability to see failure as a form of helpful feedback.” Foster these attitudes in yourself for the best retirement.
3. Capability to Maintain a Set of Friends
Recent research suggests that loneliness can be a huge threat to health. In fact, the dangers of loneliness are on par with obesity, light smoking and anxiety.
We say it all the time, “keep in touch.” Well, in retirement it is more important than ever to actually do it. Maintaining your social connections is critically important to your well-being and chances of having the best retirement.
Call up a friend for a walk. Have a standing date for coffee every morning with friends. Keep in touch with colleagues you had at work by having lunch every once in a while. No matter what you do, it is important to nurture and participate in your social networks.
4. Cash Flow Mastery
After you retire, you have a fairly fixed set of financial resources that you need to make last for the rest of your life. You won’t have a new paycheck, bonus or big raise to bail you out.
As such, you need to have a mastery of cash flow as well as the diligence to monitor your budget on a regular basis and make adjustments as necessary.
- Know what you are spending on what and cut wasteful expenses.
- Balance the budget! Make sure that you have the resources to cover your expenses — each month and for as long as you live.
- Plan big expenditures like travel, a new car or holiday gifts carefully.
Use the NewRetirement retirement planner to keep track of whether you have enough money to last.
5. Ability to Set Your Own Schedule and Stay Motivated
Most of us went to school and soon after we got a job. Our whole lives have been pretty scheduled by external demands: when to get out of bed, where we need to be, who we will see, what we will do and more…
Retirement is the first time of our lives when we have almost complete control over our own schedules. And, many retirees really struggle to figure out what they want to do and the motivation to do it.
Experts say that it is important to find a hobby and don’t just let every moment form itself. Develop a new routine, set goals and have a purpose for each day. Review the many benefits of having a schedule in retirement.
6. Can You Relax?
I know someone who will probably never retire. And, he shouldn’t. He is someone who thrives when solving a problem. He is most relaxed when he has a clear goal, a place to go, networks to call and people to help. His identity is wrapped up with what he does. Never mind the fact that hanging out on a beach makes him restless and grouchy.
If you don’t enjoy rest and relaxation, make sure that you have something tangible to fill the void when you retire. It is also important to remember that retirement is not for everyone.
It is okay to love your job and keep at it.
7. Capacity to Have a Purpose and Follow Passions
Retirement is your time — your time to be who you want to be. You may (or may not) be hampered by finances, but your time and beliefs are your own and retirement is an ideal time to identify a purpose and follow your passions.
Without a plan for life after retirement, many retirees find themselves feeling vaguely unfulfilled and restless, craving something more but not knowing what that something might be.
8. Do You Know How to Manage an Overall Retirement Plan?
We touched on the importance of cash flow and budgeting above. That is an important part of retirement planning, but there is more to it all than just reconciling the cash flow.
The NewRetirement Retirement Planner is a comprehensive and detailed tool designed for anyone who is worried about their retirement — especially people nearing the end of their careers or just beginning this stage of life. It is easy to get started, see a personalized assessment and find ways to strengthen your plan.
Best of all, your data is always saved so it is easy to try different scenarios, make adjustments and manage your finances moving forward.
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