Sure, you need to have your financial situation in check when you retire, but other aspects of your life could use some prepping as well.
Here are 7 important retirement training tips to help you have a successful future.
1. Identify a Role Model for Aging
Getting old is not something we necessarily look forward to. As such, it can be a good idea to look for role models for aging when you are preparing for retirement. Who is someone older than you that you admire? How do they dress or act that is appealing to you? What kinds of activities do they engage in? What is their attitude toward life? How do they interact with people?
You can look for role models in your parents and grandparents, celebrities or a stranger you see in the grocery store or coffee shop.
Research actually shows that having a role model for aging can help you.
- A study published by the Gerontological Society of America found that people who had a role model — particularly someone from their own family — had less negative views on aging.
- Another study by Becca Levy at Yale found that older adults who held more positive age stereotypes lived 7.5 years longer than their peers who held negative age-related stereotypes.
Here are a few thoughts on aging from celebrity role models:
Aging can be fun if you lay back and enjoy it. (Clint Eastwood)
Aging has a wonderful beauty and we should have respect for that. (Eartha Kitt)
I’m not an aging gracefully type. But I do believe in aging with grace. (Danielle Steel)
The key to the future in an aging society is not found in increasing just our life span; we need to increase our health span at the same time. (Chuck Norris)
2. Find a Cause and Commit to It
Gerontologist and dean and the DeLamar Professor at the Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health, Linda P. Fried wrote: “We are a species wired to feel needed, respected, and purposeful. The absence of those qualities is actually harmful to our health.”
When Fried was a practicing doctor, she would write prescriptions for her patients that said: “Find something meaningful to do.”
Retirement used to be a time of gradually fading away. However, now we retire in good physical, mental and emotional health with years and years of vitality ahead of us. Using our resources to help our communities — or for any kind of cause — is proven to help retain and enhance that vitality.
Researchers at Johns Hopkins/Columbia/UCLA and Washington University measured the impact of a volunteer experience on retirees. The retired volunteers put in 15 hours a week at a public school. At a follow-up of 4–8 months, the volunteers showed a significant increase in: physical activity, strength and cognitive activity.
Furthermore, walking speed decreased significantly less in the volunteers than a control population. And, the volunteers reported improved strength, less pain and they needed fewer diabetes medications during the school year to keep their blood sugar controlled. They also felt like the program “dusted off the cobwebs in their brains.” And, neuroimaging backs up the claim — showing increased brain activity and improved abilities in the areas of problem solving.
If you are interested in finding a volunteer opportunity as part of preparing for retirement, here are some high quality programs designed for seniors:
- Foster Grandparents
- Senior Companions
- RSVP (Retired and Senior Volunteer Program)
- OASIS Intergenerational Tutoring Program
- Across Ages Program
- Experience Corps
3. Develop an Intellectual Hobby
Reading, learning a new language, taking a college course, playing an instrument, restoring cars, doing suduko… It doesn’t matter what you do, just develop an intellectual hobby and keep trying to improve your mastery of it.
As they say: “Use it or lose it!”
We know from brain research that learning new skills and knowledge, and flexibly shifting between them, is key to increasing brain health.
4. Try to Maintain Responsibility Over Your Life
As we age, we sometimes slowly lose control over our own destinies. However, the more autonomy and personal responsibility we can maintain, the better.
In an astonishing study, researchers told one group of nursing home residents that they could arrange their own rooms, select their own activities and take care of a house plant. Another group was told that the staff would do everything for them.
After just 3 weeks, the independent group saw improvement in physical and mental well-being while the more controlled group declined or stayed the same. And, 18 months later, the independent residents were twice as likely to be living.
The message is clear — don’t give up. And, think about the systems you can put in place to give you as much control over your choices as possible. Update your home for independent living and maintain your intellectual and physical health.
5. Take Up a Physical Pastime — Make Movement a Part of Everyday Activities
Whether you have an exercise routine, or not, you probably understand how incredibly good physical activity is for you.
However, did you know that exercise does not necessarily need to involve sweat, toil and strain to be beneficial?
As you move into retirement, you will want to develop habits that keep you more active than sedentary. Think about developing hobbies that have a physical component — do things that keep you moving.
According to Dan Buettner, author of “The Blue Zones, 9 Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who’ve Lived the Longest,” the longest living people in the world make movement a natural part of their everyday life. They move in meaningful ways about every 20 minutes and walking is their primary mode of transportation.
Other research suggests that this type of active lifestyle is beneficial. Recent studies have concluded that there are significant risks to sitting too much — many people are now calling “sitting the new smoking.”
As you move into retirement, think about setting up your routines to involve as much movement as possible.
- Develop hobbies that are active (gardening, woodworking, baking or running, biking, swimming)
- If you are relocating then think about the walkability of your community
- Stand while talking on the phone or whenever you can
- Walk to do your errands
6. Create Social Habits
Having friends and seeing them on a regular basis is an important way to stay healthy and engaged. However, staying social can be more difficult after retirement.
Meeting up with people takes a little more effort since it is not automatically part of a routine as it is when you are working.
As such, you will want to prepare for retirement by creating social habits. Arrange to meet with friends for coffee each morning. Join a club. Find a volunteer or part time job opportunity. Whatever you do, be sure to make it a habit and something where you will be held accountable.
Technology is making it easier and easier to stay at home. However, to retain your mental and emotional well being, you need to be making regular physical contact with others.
7. Create and Maintain a Comprehensive Retirement Plan
Okay… even though finances are not the only thing, they are an important aspect of preparing for retirement. Retirement planning does not need to be difficult. You just need to know what you have and how you are going to use it.
You can get a quick and easy analysis by using the NewRetirement Retirement Planning Calculator. This system is one of the most comprehensive and useful retirement calculators — really more like a virtual financial advisor.
You input your information and the system performs hundreds of different calculations and provides charts to help you understand your financial situation. Don’t like your results? The calculator let’s you add more information, change your assumptions and keep playing with your data until you find a financial plan that will work for you.